I'll admit I can be an emotional, hot mess on my bad days. I am not indestructible. Everyone has times when life gets to them, but the key is to make sure those days are few and far between. I've done this by focusing on the 13 things I've learned that mentally strong people … Continue reading 13 Things Mentally Strong People Do
10 Signs It’s More Than A Crush
1. You don't shave your legs, straighten your hair, and put on your best clothes every day just incase they run into you somewhere or ask to hang out. They know you are a real human being who is not perfect 24/7. They will still touch your stubbly unkept legs...or in my case, run their hands … Continue reading 10 Signs It’s More Than A Crush
Leave The Comfort Zone
I spent a lot of time in the comfort zone and it's not as great as it seems. It was a trap to get me stuck in a routine that I don't even like. I just did it to feel safe and it was easy. Eventually things changed in my life and I decided it … Continue reading Leave The Comfort Zone
Learn To Give Your Best
You've proven yourself time and time again, but this is still new to me and old habits die hard. I'm the first to jump to conclusions. I can convince myself of almost anything and I'll always take the first opportunity to run. It's nothing against you. It's just who I've become. I associate commitment with … Continue reading Learn To Give Your Best
Learning To Trust Myself
I tried for many years to create what I thought was the best version of myself according to society's standards. This included maintaining honors in school, not partying/being trashy, having a boyfriend that I could marry after college, and obtaining a respectable job with a good income. I accomplished all of the things I set … Continue reading Learning To Trust Myself
The Lucky One
I wouldn't call myself a conceited person, but I do know my worth. I'm not afraid to be alone. I don't freely offer time, effort, or affection. You have to be lucky to get that. I date casually, but it's mostly for entertainment purposes and to pass time. But true commitment is a whole … Continue reading The Lucky One
Head In The Clouds
I'm sitting on a plane, staring out the window at the clouds beneath me. They are different shades of beautiful colors from the sunset. I start to think of life. Everything that's changing around me. As I’m thinking, you come to mind. I’ve put myself out there a lot for you. Probably further out than … Continue reading Head In The Clouds
The Sabotage Queen
I have come to the realization that I can give good advice when it comes to relationships, but I refuse to follow it in my own life. I know what I should be doing and then I consciously do the opposite. I purposely don't answer phone calls, refuse to send text messages first, and … Continue reading The Sabotage Queen
Always Pick You Flowers
You and I decided to go to a bar. It was within walking distance. We had low expectations for the night since we were both sleeping twenty minutes prior to leaving. On our way there, you plucked a small flower out of the dirt road and handed it to me. That was when our insignificant night … Continue reading Always Pick You Flowers
7 Signs It’s Going Nowhere
I think we've all found ourselves sitting around a table with friends trying to figure out if someone is into us. The answer is simple...if you have to question it, it's probably not that serious. But incase you don't see it simply, here are your signs to look for. He doesn't call when he says … Continue reading 7 Signs It’s Going Nowhere
